Tuesday, April 29, 2008

How to Have a Beautiful Life in a Mad Dash Society

When you leave, look at the people around them. Do not look like they& 39;re in a hurry to get somewhere? When you ask your friends for a reunion, you get very often, " Sorry, but I have an appointment, or I have a meeting on the same day "? Many people are chronically busy today. They all have an obligation to be successful as soon as possible. And for that, they have value for compressing five years of work in one, which run for five times faster! Then they race - developing a hard-nosed edge, sacrificing time and personal relationships, to get the most they can do. But despite its serious and sincere attempt to be successful, they often waste their effort because they lose their sense of direction - focusing on the trees, but the lack of notice of the forest - they end up running in circles. If you do not stop running, and occasionally look at the stars, as you know which way is North vai? (Do not tell me that you have a compass.) In real terms, this means you have to set some time every day to stop and reflect. What I
value of life?
What does success mean to me? It
what I did today brought me closer to my life& 39;s goal?
How do I get from where I am, where I want to be?
Yes, these issues require you to think deep, do some soul-searching. But when you have the answers, your mind will be clear. It& 39;s like driving a car with a windscreen ... you can see where you are going! I suggest that you clean the windscreen every night, taking time to reflect. Thus, his vision will be as sharp as can be. Everyone needs a vision - that vivid mental image of what you would like to be, Do, and have in life. Without it, we can not see the path we are headed. And the only way to develop is to pause, reflect, think deep, and search its soul. The
* Love *
Have of view you heard of Retail Therapy? Women who love. It is the idea that you can go shopping, buy something you like, and vai do you feel good about yourself. In the Be-Do-Have model, buying things is obviously TAKING on stage. Subconsciente people feel they have more things, will make them become who they want to be (Have > > Be). But the sad part is, just the opposite is true. Be who you want to be, vai lead you to be that person has (Be > > Not Have > >).
Many people are using Retail Therapy model to feel successful. They scamper to make as much money as they can, then they splurge it on a lifestyle abundant - drive fast, high-class dining, luxurious apartment, hot nightclubs, and exotic travel. All these luxuries and status symbols are suppose be someone to help them ... But, unless they already know who they are inside, they often end up being nobody. Luxury rich but poor in cash. These people have spent their money on all toys. They were never rich because they have none left to invest more. We all know that we must use the money they accumulate to buy assets that produce residual income if you are going to achieve ALWAYS wealth and financial freedom.
As rush through our days, making money and spending lavishly in a race to be successful, perhaps we can see that everything leads ... It is a diagnosis of a serious illness, a lawsuit that bankrupts you, or the death of a loved one, to transfer their values in life. Suddenly the things you no longer important ... You happy to give it all away to return to their health, to house their families, or to share once again with his beloved.
All a dying man wants to be well again. All homeless man wants is a good hot food and a place to sleep at night. And all want a man mourning, is to have spent more time with their loved ones. Do not let this happen to you. Slow down, pause and reflect. Find out what& 39;s important to you in life. Then spend more time to do what is important, instead follow the masses - to be occupied daily; chasing an imaginary shopping list of what is needed to be successful. Remember better to walk slowly in the right direction than to dash madly all sides.



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